When we think of financial abuse the picture that pops into your mind is probably the same as mine; the elderly person with over aggressive family members (or carers) forcing them to hand over their savings and leaving them with nothing.
This does happen, unfortunately it features in the media all too often. But there is also another, maybe even darker type of financial abuse happening and that’s to intelligent women (~70% of financial abuse cases are women). They are left with nothing because their partners have financially abused them and left. Continue reading
I want to talk about and plan our money, but my partner doesn’t!
Are you feeling nagged or hounded by your partner about money? It can be very frustrating for you both when one of you wants to talk about money and the other one doesn’t.
Here are a few reasons that this can happen and what you can do about it. Continue reading
This may seem an odd question, but it is one I ask all the couples we work with and invariably they look at each other and say, “probably our parents.”
Then I see their eyes light up as they realise how exciting it will be when they are living their own lives and making their own choices.
By now you are probably imaging a couple who live at one of their parent’s home and are still supported by Mum and Dad. Surely that must be what I mean when I ask are you living your relationship. But no, that isn’t what I mean. Let me explain. Continue reading
Yahoo, you have the got the house! It’s most parent’s dream is to see their children in their own home, just like them….its the pinnacle of success.
But now you have to face the fact that you have a home but you also have a mortgage and if you live in Auckland (NZ), that could be $800,000+ just to get into an ‘averaged’ price home.
On top of the mortgage there are all the other expenses that go along with home ownership like rates, insurance, maintenance. Then, possibly additional transport costs if you have moved further away from where you work to get onto the property ladder. Continue reading
“l’ll be happy when I get the pay rise” or “I’ll be happy when I get a ………” Just insert whatever the word is for you.
Why do so many of us wait to be happy? What is wrong with being happy right now? And, why do we look to money to make us happy? Continue reading