Your Money Personality Affects Relationships

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Your ‘money personality’ is a behavioural pattern relating to your spending and saving. In a relationship it may appear your Money Personalities clash.  By understanding how opposing types can be complementary in a relationship, you will become a stronger team.

Your Money Personality is rarely just the one type.  The large majority of us are a blend of two and sometimes three.

At different times in your life and depending on circumstances, you will very likely see more than one money personality type in yourself and that’s quite natural. As a result, you’ll probably see a cross over between these – in other words, you can show parts of more than one money personality at the same time. Continue reading

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Financial Infidelity

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Financial infidelity tends not to be seen as serious as having an affair.  The reality is, it is a major breach of trust and the damage it causes a relationship can have long term consequences.  And then there’s the financial fallout to deal with.

Financial infidelity can seem harmless enough, buying something that you really know you shouldn’t and hiding it away.  You bring it out saying breezily, “oh, I’ve had this for ages.”  Both men and women do this.  For many couples, financial infidelity stops there.  But for others it can escalate to real financial harm and relationship breakdown. Continue reading

Money is Emotional, Even for Children

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All our decisions are governed by emotions.  Food is a classic example, when we see that sandwich or the chocolate cake or the donuts, we can taste it.  Our emotions have told us.

Money is another classic example.  If we are happy, sad, stressed or angry, it is very easy to take the credit card for an outing to make ourselves feel better.  If you use money in this way, that is what your children will also learn.

Seth Godin said, “we have a conflicted emotional connection to money.” Continue reading

Time to Talk About Us

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Funny how songs have a habit of popping into our heads.  I was wondering why this song – You Don’t Bring Me Flowers  popped into my head this morning as I was walking from the train to the office.

A lot of our week has been meeting with women in business.  They’re busy building their businesses, looking after their children and their homes.  Then at the end of the day, they are just too tired to relax and enjoy the time they have with their partners. Continue reading

Let’s Talk About Money Honey

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I want to talk about and plan our money, but my partner doesn’t!

Are you feeling nagged or hounded by your partner about money?  It can be very frustrating for you both when one of you wants to talk about money and the other one doesn’t.

Here are a few reasons that this can happen and what you can do about it. Continue reading

3 Things to Improve Your Money Happiness

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“l’ll be happy when I get the pay rise” or “I’ll be happy when I get a ………”  Just insert whatever the word is for you.

Why do so many of us wait to be happy?  What is wrong with being happy right now?  And, why do we look to money to make us happy? Continue reading