Children and Money: To Teach or Not to Teach…

Financial literacy for children is a hot topic.  Start them young so they learn to save not spend, is one school of thought.  But what if as a parent you are struggling with your own financial literacy can you be a positive role model?

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Children and money is always a very interesting topic of conversation.

The question of what to teach children about money and when to start is something I am asked quite frequently in my role as a money mentor.

I really like Rob Stocks article Cents and Financial Sensibility , his 10 point checklist, whilst somewhat tongue in cheek, does have a few gems in it.

Teaching your children financial literacy should go hand in hand with their understanding of maths. There is no point trying to teach the value of $20 or what you can buy with it if the child can only count to 10.

Give them a piggy bank and pay pocket money in coins so they can clearly see a portion goes into the piggy bank and is saved for later when they have saved enough to buy the latest toy or gizmo, the balance they can spend now.

Let them make mistakes, if they blow their pocket money in the first couple of days on lollies, so be it, there isn’t any more until next week

Helping your child become financially literate requires quite a lot of discipline on your part as a parent.  The other key problem is that many parents aren’t financially literate themselves and are struggling to manage their own money let alone trying to teach their children to manage their pocket money.

So for both parents and their children, it’s all about going back to basics,  and the concepts that were around before, well before we all had credit cards, EFTPOS and internet banking.  If you spend more than you earn, you end up in debt. If you spend less, you have something for a rainy day.  Whilst these are seemingly simple concepts implementing them are not that straightforward because we are surrounded by enticements to spend now, pay later and the voice in our head is agreeing.

It doesn’t matter what age we are, and what we have been taught about money by our parents, the urge for instant gratification seems to override logic more often than not.

The answer is yes, it is important to teach children about money, as well as how to kick a ball, bake a cake, and have fun being a kid.  You may be surprised what you learn about your own financial behaviour along the way.

We would love to hear your own stories about teaching your children about money, so post a comment and share with a friend.

2 thoughts on “Children and Money: To Teach or Not to Teach…

  1. Excellent article. It’s pretty hard for parents to educate their children today when we live in such a world of instant gratification. Every week we are bombarded by retailers with anything up to 5 years interest free and no payments for 12 months. This entices us to buy things we don’t need and can’t afford, hoping that when the time comes, we will be able to afford it. So when Mum and Dad race off to buy these things, what example are they giving their children? They are just reinforcing the self indulgent must have lifestyle. Is it “Do as I say and nor as I do?” Doesn’t go down well with teenagers!


  2. I do believe all of the ideas you have presented for your post. They’re very convincing and can definitely work. Nonetheless, the posts are very quick for newbies. May just you please lengthen them a little from next time? Thank you for the post.


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